So I mentioned earlier about life not being the same again since Zoe arrived, but I truly underestimated how much things would change.
Bruh... It's been a total overhaul of life on the Ibemere planet.
Chioma and I had a sweet little system going... where there was always time for lazy evenings after work, deciding what to eat, spending an inordinate amount of time deciding what series or film to watch, long evening strolls, staying up late on my part, sneaking in date night here and there, visiting friends and having time to read novels.
Hmmm... i laugh in Zoe Chizara!!
for the past four months or so, I honestly can't recall a successful series we've finished (maybe one or two sha) or remember when we weren't passed out from exhaustion by 10pm.
Omo..I have to hand it to Chioma. I've always known she was going to be Super-Mum but I have to say she's been absolutely amazing with Zoe. Throughout this period, she's reshaped and re-moulded herself to balance everything and trust me it has definitely NOT been easy at all. She does a ton of baby research, shops for new things ( i'm sure her online shopping carts are full of recommendations and things we have to buy), we're exclusively feeding Zoe with breastmilk, so you can imagine the amount of time and energy involved with that, does most of the heavy lifting (literally speaking) when it comes to spending time with our little madam (unfortunately, as I'm not always around), matter of fact, we joked about not having to gym too much as her baby weight is sufficient for exercises, Suffice to say, she's the leading authority on all things baby Zoe.
Of course, I ensure my part is fully contributed too. As i said earlier, a baby is definitely not a one-person affair. House chores, shopping, cooking, spending time with Madam Z when I'm around and all other sundry affairs. So far so good, it's been working out for us and what's a little exhaustion in the grand scheme of things eh?😫😫
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